How to get some control in a relationship with a player?

If you get with him right now you will be his rebound girl don't waist your time with him..!! If you want to remain unattached and still talk to him.. You need to start talking to other guys and going out with the or texting them if he only texts you on weekends this just means he is not interested in you like you are in him he just wants a booty call from you, so if you just want sex go ahead but make sure he takes you out for it!!! and since you said he is cute that means he has other girls on his jock as well. Don't be a rebound he is playing the field so I think you should move on and let him get that fishing around out of his system, and when he does and ready for a relationship. He just make come back to you, but he is not ready for a serious relationship at all!!! You are the weekend girl just remember that!! Yes honesty works but he just got out of a relationship wrong time for you to be trying to get with him.. He Just wants sex...Just Be Careful