What do you do when being single gets too hard to handle ?

Everybody knows being married is difficult, but being single is also difficult . I feel like a “family man” who missed out on the “family” . I have an extremely difficult time getting into a relationship, but living without women is snobbish and selfish . Being unattached goes against everything I believe in . The last time I asked this question, the people who answered all offered a few words of encouragement, and that’s not what I’m looking for . What do YOU do when being single gets too hard to handle ? Thank you in advance for your answers .